Sorry everyone! I thought I had posted last night, but it’s not there. Who knows what I did? Mom was released from the hospital yesterday afternoon. They drove part way home yesterday and are en route now. They hope to be home later today. Mom is still sick so I think it has been a long drive. Hopefully her nausea will end soon. Dad said she cannot eat or drink today. I’ll update more later.
Friday, January 22, 2010
Headed Home
Wednesday, January 20, 2010
Simply Sick!
Tuesday, January 19, 2010
Trying to Rest
Still Waiting!
Mom did have her surgery first thing this morning. As of 2 p.m. dad is still waiting for her to come out of recovery. He has not spoken to the surgeon yet so we are simply waiting to hear how it went. I promise to update as soon as I know something.
Monday, January 18, 2010
Surgery Tomorrow!
Mom and dad arrived safely back at Mayo yesterday (Sunday 1-17-10). It was a long day of travel, but we are thankful they arrived safely. Mom stated that they made it without a hitch, but added that after five trips they would not be admitting if they made a wrong turn because it should be expected that they know their way by now. HA! Mom's spirits were very high this morning after meeting with her new surgeon. Not only did she feel that he was very competent, but added that he is also young and handsome. He will definately be operating tomorrow morning. Dr. Dowdy feels that he can use the less invasive proceedure to perform her complete hysterectomy, but stated that she will have a minimum of a six week recovery time. Mom will check into the Methodist Hospitial tomorrow morning. If things go well, they can start home Thursday. The complete pathology report will take awhile as they use the same proceedure as the two previous times to examine the tissue. Dr. Dowdy was very reassuring that mom will have a great outcome. Dad feels confident that he has the hospitial routine down pat.........they are both looking forward to having this proceedure behind them. Please continue to keep them in your prayers! We thank and love you all. I'll update you tomorrow.
Thursday, December 31, 2009
More Surgery...........Ugh!
Wednesday, December 30, 2009
Surgery Complete
Mom and dad left for Rochester last Sunday (December 27th). It was a snowy trip for them, especially around the Champaign area, but thankfully they had safe travel. They stopped for the night in Wisconsin and stayed at a new Marriott so day one was a success! On Monday, they arrived in Rochester and mom was able to start shopping for her prosthesis. On Tuesday morning they fitted her with her prosthesis and that task is now complete. At noon on Tuesday, mom entered the hospital for her surgery. The doctor completed a hysteroscopy biopsy........basically he removed one large polyp and two regular sized polyps from her uterus. Then he completed a dilation & cyrettage of the uterus. The surgery lasted exactly one hour and was more involved than mom was anticipating. She came out of recovery around 5 p.m. Thankfully the surgeon feels that everything looks good. A complete pathology report will be ready Friday to verify his findings. Unfortunately, mom was very sick after surgery (worse than the first surgery). I think it was a combination of the anesthesia and medicine. However, this morning she is feeling much better and is going to try to eat something. Depending on how she feels, they may start the journey home today. She is the toughest person I know. Knowing dad, he will load her up and head this way ASAP!! Thanks again for all of your prayers, we know God is good and has taken care of us through this journey. Keep praying for a clean pathology report!
Thursday, December 3, 2009
Come Celebrate with Mom & Dad!
Together they have found a friendship, raised a family and built a beautiful marriage. You are most warmly invited by the children of Lynda and John Bryant to participate in the celebration of our parents’ 50th Wedding Anniversary. A come and go reception will be held on Saturday, the 19th of December between the hours of one and four o’clock in the afternoon.
Emmanuel United Methodist Church
700 3rd Street
Carmi, IL
Your love is a treasured gift, we request no other.
After all of our answered prayers, we look forward to sharing a day with you in honor of our parents. Hope to see you then.
On the Road Again!
As you know, our schedules have taken some twists and turns the last six weeks. Some have asked about an update on my health situation. John says I’m falling apart and wonders if I’m still under warranty?
After returning home from having the double mastectomy, I developed a cold and a terrible cough. I coughed and coughed. Nevertheless, I made a remarkable recovery. (Don’t get me wrong—I’m still a bit sore). It was heartwarming to receive so many beautiful cards. Everyone was so nice to bring me food, flowers, and gifts. Thank you so much for your many acts of kindness and especially your prayers.
About the same time I learned of my breast cancer, I also learned about some possible polyps in the uterus. When I left the hospital at Mayo’s, the doctor emphasized the importance of me keeping an appointment on December 1st. Now that would make three trips to Mayo’s. Eric had to take us the first time and Amy had to stay with us and help drive us home after surgery. I decided to cancel but being the good patient I am, I decided John and I would try to get to the big city by ourselves (all 600 miles). After opening an early Christmas present, we knew we could do it. He received a GPS that was sure to get us to our destination. Oops! You mean the thing has to be programmed! Thanks to Eric we were on our way – Destination—Mayo Clinic. Ours is a TOMTOM and it really works. We highly recommend it. It’s hard to believe but it told (yes, actually talked) us every turn to make.
December 1st I had a hysteroscopy at the Rochester Methodist Hospital. Basically, they look inside your uterus with a hysteroscope. Since they don’t give anesthetic, I was able to watch on a screen, but didn’t know what I was seeing. The gynecologist told me I had a polyp just inside the uterus that extended all the way to the back of the uterus. There were also two other “things” of some kind that didn’t belong. The gynecologist said they all need to come out. I guess we’ll make trip number four before the year is out. They have scheduled me for surgery on December 29th.
They have asked me to participate in a research study at the Mayo Clinic. The research is being done to look at both the cause and the outcome of breast cancer. I am happy to consent to giving blood and tissue to be used. I also have to fill out questionnaires from time to time and release a lot of past medical records to them. This is a long term study and I hope they gain information to help others in the future. I met with one of the team members to get the process started while at Mayo’s.
John had to go around and visit with some friends he met on the first two visits. He ask the man at the Dairy Queen if he could apply for a job. He said he’s at Mayo’s enough to help out if they are short handed.
I did not experience any of the side effects that they said I might have so we started home earlier than planned. Guess what – I figured out how to program that thing to Carmi, IL. In fact, I got so good at running that new fangled thing that I asked it where to sleep. It said to stop at 4.2 miles and stay at the Comfort Inn. It was a rather new and very nice place to stay. John said he wouldn’t trade his present for a farm in Georgia. We might take to traveling after all these years.
I plan to get some extra rest and enjoy Christmas. Two sisters were out playing. One girl came in and cried, “Oh, Mommy, I’ve made a terrible discovery. All of the roses have thorns!” The second daughter came running and her face was beaming. “Oh Mommy” she said, “Come and see! All of the thorns have beautiful roses!” Whether our roses have thorns or our thorns have roses depends largely on us. Let’s look for the roses and give God the thanks this Christmas season. Merry Christmas and remember me in your prayers on December 29th. I’ll update the blog on December 30th.
Monday, November 9, 2009
Hello From Lynda:
I’m hoping Amy will post this blog for me. Maybe God has slowed me down so I can catch up on some of this modern technology.
First, I’d like to say that our family has been saddened by the sudden death of the Rev. Dennis Buttery. Dennis had posted two encouraging blogs on my Health Updates. Dennis and I had many good times together as we attended a one room school named Moccasin. He married a good friend – Wanda. (Wanda is my Aunt Vonda’s twin sister). Dennis was an outstanding speaker and leader for the Georgia Church. Please pray for the family during this difficult time.
I continue to be astounded by all the kindness and offers of help that have been extended to me and my family. I thank God for blessing me with exceptional friends and family. I’ve had the assurance that you would understand if I became discouraged and you’d share my laughter when I tried to find some humor in this serious cancer journey. Thank you for the scriptures which reminded me of God’s promises. Thank you for the cards, food, calls, and prayers. Your prayers kept me from fear and discouragement. They gave me peace and strength as I waited for surgery and the final prognosis. I’m thankful that words like aggressive and invasive were no problem for my God. My prognosis is very good. Praise God for His healing power. I ask that you continue to remember me as I follow up on other doctor appointments, have drain tubes removed, and regain my strength.
I have a few tidbits of information I’m still wondering about:
1. On Monday (before scheduled surgery on Tuesday) they took me to the nuclear medicine section and gave me four very painful shots in each breast (that’s 8 total). Now why would you try to repair something you were going to cut off the next day? (Be informed about nuclear stuff)
2. After surgery, I tried to raise my arms to eat, I told Amy, “I gave consent for my boobs to be removed, but I didn’t know they were going to cut my arms half off.” (Remember to ask questions before signing consents)
3. I wasted a lot of time one day trying to get the telephone to change TV stations. (Stay focused – the TV remote works much better)
4. How do you spell mastectomy? (I always have to ask)
I’ll close my blog with this thought. Karlene and Steve Garrett sent me this story in a card. I had read it before, but it took on new meaning for me during the past few weeks.
One night a man had a dream. He dreamt he was walking along the beach with the Lord. Across the sky flashed scenes from his life. For each scene, he noticed two sets of footprints in the sand: one belonging to him, and the other to the Lord.
When the last scene of his life flashed before him, he looked back at the footprints in the sand. He noticed that many times along the path of his life there was only one set of footprints. He also noticed that it happened at the very lowest and saddest times in his life.
This really bothered him and he questioned the Lord about it.
“Lord, You said that once I decided to follow You, You’d walk with me all the way. But I have noticed that during the most troublesome times in my life, there is only one set of footprints. I don’t understand why when I needed You most You would leave me.”
The Lord replied, “My son, My precious child, I love you and would never leave you. During your times of trial and suffering, when you see only one set of footprints, it was then that I carried you.”
I can assure you that this is very true. I thank God for carrying me through the past few weeks. When problems come your way, trust in God and He will carry you. We love you and pray that God will bless you for your many acts of kindness. Also, a special thanks to Pastor Steven Friese and Pastor Van Scott. I knew their prayers were with me and I knew they were just a phone call away. We love ya – Lynda, John and family
P.S. Please pray for three other people who are very ill with cancer.
1. Kathy Smith (John’s cousin)
2. Linda Crow (Chris Crow’s mother. Chris is married to my niece Melissa Barbre-Crow)
3. Judy Crum (Lisa Wolff’s aunt. Lisa is married to my nephew Clinton)
Saturday, November 7, 2009
Blessings Continue:
Friday, November 6, 2009
Cancer In Both Breasts....Full Report At 1:00
Thursday, November 5, 2009
The Comedian Has Hit Bottom...
Wednesday, November 4, 2009
Hello From Lynda Part II
Tuesday, November 3, 2009
God Continues to Bless Us!
After a long day of waiting, dad and I just met with Dr. Sterioff. He cautioned us that his final report would not be ready until tomorrow, as his team is still completing tests. However, he stated that mom's surgery went very well. He removed the left breast first. This was supposed to be the good one, but Dr. Sterioff stated that it had Atypical Ductal Hyperphasia (ADH). He explained to us that, "...it was turning into cancer." He took a lymph node and it tested negative. Dr. Sterioff then removed the cancerous breast and removed five lymph nodes, all of which tested negative......praise Jesus! This is truly an answer to prayer. Mom is still in recovery. It is anticipated that we can see her around 6:30 p.m. I know the days ahead will be hard, but I know she will be relieved to hear the good news. Thanks again for your concern and prayers! You've kept her spirits high! Keep us in your prayers and I will update you with the doctor's 'official' report tomorrow. As you can imagine, we are overjoyed with the news!
Monday, November 2, 2009
She's Still Positive!
Over the weekend, mom and dad had a safe trip back to Mayo Clinic. After meeting with her surgeon (Dr. Sterioff) this morning, mom called and reported that she really likes him. I can tell that she feels very comfortable in his experienced care. I’m thankful for this blessing as she continues to sound really positive, confident and determined to fight. Dr. Sterioff feels that the cancer was caught early and is not very invasive……..yeah! His report contained positive news and some not-so-positive news. However, the bottom line is that he will not know for certain until he completes the surgery and gets all of the test results back. Therefore, I will update you with the facts at that time since most is speculation at this point. She is going into the hospital this afternoon for some tests, but will be released to spend the night with dad at the hotel. She will be admitted again tomorrow morning. She is scheduled to meet with an oncologist at 12:45 on Friday, November 6th and possibly be released at that time to heal. I will fly to Rochester early in the morning. Her double mastectomy will most likely be around noon. Please continue to pray for our entire family and we all adjust!
Sunday, October 25, 2009
Hello from Lynda:
As you've learned, the first order of treatment is a double mastectomy. They tried to get me to surgery sooner, but it seems that Nov. 3rd will be my surgery date. As a result of the wait, I'm home resting. This week I have doctor appointments on Wednesday, Thursday, and Friday. These appointments are not directly related to my cancer so I plan to reschedule them tomorrow. John and I plan to start back to Mayo's on Saturday.
I can already see that cancer is a family affair and I ask you to pray for my wonderful family. They have put their activities on hold in order to help me. We are so thankful for our special son-in-law, Eric, who drove us to and from the Mayo Clinic. We will ever be grateful for his kindness and patience as he tried to teach the country people how to act in the big city. As soon as we arrived, we decided to eat before the restaurants closed. The waitress said, "The men sound fine but where did you come from? You sound like you're from the south." I guess I needed a speech lesson before I left Carmi.
On the second day, Eric allowed us to venture out on our own. Here are some things we learned. The first lessons were about the elevators. You have to put your room key card in the elevator before you push the floor number. Don't panic if it doesn't work - you can just ride up and down, up and down. Someone will finally get on (who knows how to use their card) and push the button to your floor. Those elevators had a lot of options. We were coming down from an appointment and started reading the down options. One option said 'Subway'. I'm always thinking about food and wondered how that restaurant got its own button on the elevator. About that time John said, "Don't push that button. I don't know how to ride the Subway." The next day someone told us we could walk in this beautiful underground tunnel. We pushed 'Subway' and only had to walk a short distance to our room. (Amazing!)
We had a beautiful room at the Kahler Hotel. I immediately noticed large fancy bottles of water with fancy little tags on them. John said, "Don't drink the water. It says $2.50 on the tag. The water part is true (maybe I'm exaggerating a little now)......When we started to check out, John noticed they had charged us for the water. John said, "How can you charge us for water? We didn't open it?" The manager said, "It's not my fault you didn't drink it. It was there in the room." John picked up the bill and subtracted $150 from it. The manager said, "What are you doing?" John said, "I'm charging you $50 a day for kissing my wife." The manager said, "I didn't kiss your wife." John replied, "That's not my fault. She was there in the room." So much for my nonsense.....
I want to thank all of you for your love and support. Your prayers are appreciated more than you can imagine. The prayers, cards, scripture, and words of comfort lift me up, renew my faith, and give me the determination to win this battle. We love you!! Lynda & John
Thursday, October 22, 2009
Answered Prayers!
We just received great news! After a full day of testing yesterday, Dr. Stan reported to mom today that though her cancer is invasive and aggressive, it is not nearly as aggressive as the initial pathology report from Evansville indicated. A lot of questions simply can’t be answered until after surgery. They are on their way home this afternoon. Mom and dad will have to return to Mayo on Tuesday (October 27th) and will remain there for two weeks. Her double mastectomy is now scheduled for Tuesday, November 3rd. We feel blessed for this great news and answer to our prayers!!
Amy L. Dixon, Ed. D.
Principal/Director of Instruction
Jefferson Attendance Center
713 Fourth Street
Carmi, IL 62821
Ph. 618.382.7016
Fax 618.382.7512
Wednesday, October 21, 2009
Tests, Tests and More Tests
Tuesday, October 20, 2009
First Day at Mayo's
Tomorrow morning at 8 a.m. she will start another battery of tests. They will be checking her colon, uterus, and her fibromyalgia. Basically, she will be checked from head to toe. She also has tests scheduled for Thursday as well.
At this point they were not able to give an exact stage of the cancer. The doctor informed Mom that they would not be for sure of the stage or if the cancer has spread until they do the surgery. They also told her at the time of surgery they may have to remove some lymph nodes. The doctor said her best guess is that the cancer is in stage 2, which is very hopeful news.
Mom's spirits were high, as they always are, and she was very comfortable and impressed with the doctor overseeing her treatment.
Thank you all for your continued thoughts, prayers and comments.
Isaiah 41:1010
Don’t you be afraid, for I am with you. Don’t be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you. Yes, I will help you. Yes, I will uphold you with the right hand of my righteousness.